The Danger of Assumptions and Presumptions

We’ve all heard the saying: “Don’t make assumptions.” And for good reason. When we assume, we act as though we fully understand a situation—without actually taking the time to investigate or discern the truth. Assumptions are conclusions drawn without sufficient evidence, and they’re often wrong.

Wrong assumptions fuel prejudice, racism, and harmful stereotypes. They fracture marriages, disrupt neighborhoods, and create tension in workplaces. When we think we know something we haven’t taken the time to understand, we often alienate others and make poor decisions.

Even Jesus experienced rejection based on false assumptions. Many believed He was a threat simply because He didn’t meet their expectations of how the Messiah should act. They didn’t pause to truly understand His mission—or His heart.

But if assumptions are dangerous, presumptions can be even more damaging.

To presume means to take something for granted. It implies an even greater level of certainty—often without any more ...

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Be Owned and Blessed, Not Burned Out

Owned—in the Best Way Possible

You’ve probably heard some good old-fashioned trash talk in sports: “I own you!” It’s meant to intimidate, to send the message that the other person has no chance unless you allow it. Being “owned” in that context is humiliating—it implies domination and defeat.

But being “owned” by God? That’s something entirely different—and deeply freeing.

The Apostle Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 6:19–20, “You are not your own; you were bought at a price.” That price was the life of God’s Son, given as a ransom to free us from the bondage of sin. Through Jesus, we’ve been rescued from darkness and brought into a Kingdom of light, life, and righteousness.

But here’s the key: living in that freedom means embracing this new identity. You are no longer your own—you belong to Him.

God’s Treasured Possession

Three times in the book of Deuteronomy, God refers to His people as His “treasured possession.” In today’s world, being called a possession might sound negative—li...

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It's Your Turn Now!

Have you ever had the privilege of learning from someone who truly inspired you? Maybe it was a coach, a teacher, a manager, or a mentor—someone who not only taught you a skill, but shaped how you see the world. And maybe you were even invited to actually work alongside them. What an incredible opportunity! You got to see them up close: how they prepared, how they practiced, how they carried themselves. Maybe you even had the chance to share life beyond the lessons—to become friends.

But then, came the moment: they turned to you and said, “Now it's your turn.”

For many of us, that moment is both thrilling and terrifying. We doubt ourselves. We wonder, Am I really ready for this? And yet, somehow, we step into it. Shaky at first, but we grow and begin to walk in the ways of our mentor. Eventually, we even find ourselves looking for someone we can pour into—just as someone once did for us.

This is exactly the kind of transition the disciples faced in their time with Jesus.

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Becoming a Spiritually Attentive Friend

Have you ever felt like people aren’t really listening when you speak? Maybe they’re nodding, but their eyes wander. Or they respond in a way that makes you wonder if they heard you at all. Chances are, their minds are elsewhere—thinking about their to-do list, waiting for their turn to talk, or simply distracted.

What’s especially frustrating is when someone answers based on what they think you were going to say, not what you actually said. It’s as if they checked out of the conversation early, filling in the blanks with their own assumptions or opinions. Sometimes people are more focused on delivering advice than understanding what’s truly being shared.

But Scripture reminds us:
"Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak." (James 1:19)

Listening Is a Gift—One We Can’t Get Back

Your full attention is one of the most valuable gifts you can offer another person. Time is limited, and when you choose to spend it truly listening, you're giving something that can never be reclai...

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Pairing, Syncing, and Living Aligned with God

When we buy a new device that connects wirelessly—like a phone with earbuds or a smartwatch with a computer—the first thing we usually have to do is pair them. Pairing links the devices so they can recognize and communicate with each other. Sometimes it works right away; other times, it takes several tries. Each pairing experience has its own little learning curve.

Our relationship with our Father in heaven works in a similar way. To communicate with Him, we must first pair—and we do that through prayer. Prayer is the foundational connection point between us and God. Luke 5:16 tells us that “Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed.” Even Jesus, in all His power and purpose, prioritized staying connected to the Father. His ministry was rooted in that relationship.

But communication isn’t enough—we also need to be in sync.

When we sync devices, like our phone and computer, they share information. They’re aligned, working from the same data. In the same way, syncing our hearts...

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How Clean Are You—Really?

Do you ever stop and ask yourself: Do I feel clean?
Not just outwardly—but deep down, in your soul?

For many of us, the feeling of spiritual cleanness is tied to behavior. When we’re “doing well”—praying, avoiding sin, helping others—we feel good, maybe even righteous. But that kind of cleanness is temporary. Sooner or later, we mess up. We get angry. We get selfish. We fall short. And just like that, the clean feeling fades.

Others take a more theological view. They know—on an intellectual level—that they’re clean because of what Jesus did on the cross. His death paid for their sin, so they’re positionally righteous before God. And that’s absolutely true. But knowing you’re clean in theory doesn’t always make you feel clean in practice.

Even in Jesus’ day, people wrestled with this. The Pharisees obsessed over staying outwardly pure. They avoided anything—or anyone—that might defile them. But Jesus called them out. He said, “It’s not what goes into you that makes you unclean—it’s w...

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"How to Know If It’s Really God Speaking"

Is That Really God Speaking? Here’s How to Know.

Have you ever paused and wondered, “Is this really God speaking to me?”
Maybe you sense Him nudging you in a certain direction—or correcting, guiding, or prompting you to take action. But how do you know if it’s really His voice and not just your own thoughts?

Discernment starts with asking the right questions:

  • Does it align with Scripture?
  • Is it consistent with godly counsel from trusted voices?
  • Are those in spiritual authority affirming it?
  • Does it bring peace, or does it feel condemning and heavy?
  • Is it drawing you closer to God and deeper into obedience?
When the answer is yes to these, it’s a strong indicator that God is indeed speaking.
But let’s go deeper.

At the core of God’s voice is always this truth: You are His beloved.
Everything God says—whether to correct, direct, or encourage—flows out of your covenant relationship with Him. You're not a servant earning approval. You're a son or daughter resp

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Embrace Life's Challenges: Find Strength in God

Life can feel like one challenge after another. Some days it’s a small bump, other days it’s a full-on mountain. Whether these moments strengthen or shake us depends on how we see adversity—and how we respond.

James challenges us with a surprising perspective:
“Consider it pure joy whenever you face trials of many kinds” (James 1:2).
Why? Because trials are often where God does His deepest work. Growth, maturity, and resilience are rarely forged in comfort—they’re born in pressure. If we lean in, hardship becomes a refining fire, not just a painful season.

Moses said it plainly in Psalm 90:10:
“The length of our days is seventy years—or eighty, if we have the strength; yet their span is but trouble and sorrow, for they quickly pass, and we fly away.”
Life is short. And hard. But every difficulty is an opportunity—to deepen our faith, build spiritual strength, and discover purpose in the middle of the pain.

Take David. In 1 Samuel 30, he returned from battle to find

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Are you seeing the Kingdom of God around you?

Sometimes, my wife can’t believe how blind I can be – especially when I’m searching for something in the refrigerator. There are many moments when I miss things that are right in front of me – clothes that need to go upstairs, trash that needs to be taken out, dishes that need washing. It’s rarely intentional, I promise.

But there’s a different kind of blindness that Jesus talked about – one that goes beyond missing something on a shelf. In Luke 17:20-21, He said, “The coming of the Kingdom of God is not something that can be observed, nor will people say, ‘Here it is,’ or ‘There it is,’ because the Kingdom of God is in your midst.”

Jesus was pointing out that God’s Kingdom isn’t always obvious. It’s not something you can just see on the surface. It’s something that requires attention, discernment, and spiritual insight. It often works quietly beneath the surface, in ways that are easy to miss if we’re not paying attention.

Take, for example, the moment when Jesus was watching peopl...

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Find Courage in His Presence

🔥 Find Courage in His Presence 💪

What do you do when fear creeps in?

😶 Do you ignore it, pretending it doesn’t exist?
🏃‍♂️ Do you play it safe, avoiding anything that might make you feel afraid?
⏸️ Do you freeze, paralyzed by the weight of uncertainty?
🚀 Or have you learned to stand firm, press through, and move ahead despite fear?

Many people hide their fear behind rationalizations. Instead of admitting they’re afraid to ride the roller coaster, 🎢 speak in public 🎤, or confront a difficult person 😡, they convince themselves they simply don’t want to. This way of thinking often leads to a smaller, more limited life.

Others have felt fear so often that they’ll do anything to avoid it. And some become completely stuck, unable to move forward at all. We’ve all been there at some point.

🛑 So how do we break free from fear?

Fear thrives in uncertainty, in the endless "what ifs" that paint negative possibilities. It is an emotional playground 🎠 for the enemy, designed to keep us stuck....

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