As people grow older, they often begin to "soften" in more ways than one. Perhaps most importantly, many develop softer hearts. The passing decades have a way of humbling us. We become more aware of our limitations, less certain of ourselves, and more appreciative of others.
Our culture often views this softening with suspicion. Is it genuine humility, or is it simply a loss of drive, conviction, or backbone? And even when humility is recognized, it is rarely celebrated. The public square tends to reward confidence, self-promotion, and independence far more than meekness and humility.
God's economy, however, is very different.
Both James, the brother of Jesus, and Peter, one of His closest followers, wrote:
"God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble." (James 4:6; 1 Peter 5:5)
That's a sobering statement. God opposes pride because pride ultimately opposes Him.
Scripture tells us that the proud do not seek God and make no room for Him in their thoughts (Psalm 10:4). If failing to seek God and neglecting to include Him in our thinking are signs of pride, then many of us may be living more pridefully than we realize.
So why is pride such a big deal?
In Scripture, pride is associated with arrogance, presumption, and a cynical disregard for the needs of others. It is both an attitude and a way of living. Pride declares independence from God and from people. It assumes self-sufficiency and often carries the subtle belief that one's own needs, opinions, or importance outweigh those of others.
Pride is the opposite of faith because it acts as though God is unnecessary.
It is also the opposite of the loving community we see within the Godhead. The Father delights in the Son. The Son honors and obeys the Father. The Holy Spirit reveals and magnifies the Son. The relationships within the Trinity are marked by love, honor, and humility. This same spirit of humility and mutual honor is a defining characteristic of the Kingdom of God.
As you reflect on your recent days, what has been more evident in your life—humility or pride?
Have you included God in your thoughts and decisions?
Have you intentionally submitted yourself to His will?
Have the people around you sensed that you are seeking to serve and elevate them, or have you been looking to them to elevate you?
If you recognize pride—or simply a practical godlessness—in your life, take heart. There is great hope.
James gives us a simple but powerful answer:
"Humble yourselves before the Lord, and He will lift you up." (James 4:10)
Acknowledge your need for Him. Admit that His purposes are greater than your own. Recognize that apart from His mercy and help, you have little of lasting value to offer others.
And then trust Him to lift you up.
That may not mean prominence or recognition. In fact, most of us probably couldn't handle the notoriety very well. But God will raise us from a place of self-reliance into a place of Kingdom usefulness. He will position us to become channels of His grace to others.
So let us humble ourselves before the Lord and submit to one another out of reverence for Christ (Ephesians 5:21). Then we can watch together as God does the lifting.
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